Friends forever

Are there really friends that care about each other their whole life?

Are there really friends that can care about each other their whole life?

I wrote about this at length, but decided against uploading it. I’ve been writing entirely too much about spiritual things lately for someone of my pray grade. So I’ll try to make this more straightforward.

Yes, there really are friends who care about each other for as long as they live. Perhaps not their whole life unless they also happen to be twins, but from the onset of their friendship and forevermore.

St Teresa was one of those people who loved her friends very dearly and always had them close to her heart. You’d think someone who had God had enough, but to her there was not a clear distinction between God and his children. Those who loved “His Majesty”, as she liked to call Him, having them as friends was in a way like having God himself.

The key to robust friendship is that they are founded on love that gives without asking anything in return. Friendships founded on need are not robust. It could simply be the need to not be alone, so these will fade when there is someone more readily available to be together with. Or it could be the need to be entertained, or to feel important, or even in some cases an erotic “need” to be in the presence of an attractive person, which often excites people even if nothing comes of it.

But some friendships are based on a common love for something that does not fade. And these friendships can last for as long as we both shall live, and even beyond, so I believe. Be that as it may, my friendship is free and must be freely accepted. While I’m happy to help a friend, you should not be too optimistic about starting up your friendship by asking for favors, if you are just another greedy human seeking benefits for this brief life on Earth. But if you seek glory and immortality by endurance in good deeds, I’ll definitely consider being Friends Forever. ^_^ I could need more friends like that.

 

“God told me so!”

Bright yellow light from above

A bright light is one of the most common manifestations of a Heavenly vision, but is not in itself a guarantee for divine origin. The revelation still needs to be verified, according to the experts. And then you put it aside.

This entry is really written for Christians. If you are curious you can read it anyway, but I don’t expect it to be useful to others.

Still reading the book Fire Within about St Teresa of Avila and St John of the Cross. I haven’t really studied great saints in much detail before, so perhaps they are pretty normal for their sort, but Teresa in particular really blows me away with her awesomeness. (As usual, when it comes to Teresa. I feel like a complete fanboy when I think of her. She is so awesome!) It turns out that for her, it was quite natural to hear the voice of her Lord or to see the risen Christ in a vision – not a vague daydream, but an unimaginable beauty in a blinding light beyond anything she had thought possible. She also had various other direct perceptions of Jesus and God.

Now, this surprised me, but that was not the awesome part. The awesome part is how she didn’t make a fuss about it.

St Teresa and St John insisted that no matter how absolutely certain it was that a vision or voice was of God, there was no reason to talk about it to anyone except ones spiritual director (the person a Catholic goes to for confession, normally a priest). After that, just set it aside. These things happen, and their purpose is our sanctification. That is to say, they should result in us becoming more humble, more loving, more patient and so on, if they really are from God. These perceptions of Heaven – and even of the Trinity, it was implied – was not a proof that one was extremely holy. Sure, genuine communications did not appear until a certain point, usually, but not very far into the purification process. After that, even a genuine vision of the risen Christ was not really saying anything about one’s progress. And many people live and die without any such event, and are the better for it.

That is a pretty cool attitude toward something that would send most of us screaming or make us full-time preachers or selling books on Amazon about our Conversations With God.

I imagine that if I had a grand vision of the Lord when I was even remotely young, I would have been all over the place thinking I was a Chosen Vessel of Salvation, a Very Important Person in the cosmic hierarchy. Everyone show respect for the Great Man of God!

(Of course, that is how I imagine it. In reality, any genuine meeting with God will automatically reveal one’s sins, faults, weaknesses and imperfections. So one will immediately become very humble – although I am not sure how long that lasts. I think that depends on one’s attitude.)

The reason why St Teresa eventually mentioned these events to a broader audience (originally the nuns under her care) was that she had been ordered by her superiors (in the church hierarchy, not necessarily in the spirit). Being a very obedient old woman, she wrote her rambling, charming books that changed the history of the Church forever.

The Catholic Church is still fairly monolithic, but the Protestant churches have split into probably more than a thousand sects, not to mention splinter cells within the various denominations again. And frequently this is because someone has had some sort of vision, voice, or inspiration that they felt certain was from God. And perhaps it was. Why not? God does things like that, evidently. But as the book about the two saints points out, one thing is what God says and another is what we make of it. The Bible is supposed to be the Word of God as well, and people interpret it in wildly different ways. Why wouldn’t they do the same with a voice or a vision or a revelation?

And this also came to pass. They say that here on the south coast of Norway, every village used to have a prayer house or two, beside the church. That is because each village had some kind of sect which had some revelation that the church did not have, like a different variant of some ritual or dogma. And then someone in the sect would get their own revelation, and break out and make a new sect. They would make their own prayer house and try to poach followers from the church and the other sects; and if they failed to convert them, threaten them with eternal damnation.

I guess when God tells you something, it is hard to stay cool and wait and see. But if great saints like Teresa and John could do so, certainly some random guy should.  (And before you ask, no I have not have any visions of the Lord in a bright light. Yet. Hopefully if it ever happens, I’ll now be able to not go off the deep end – which everyone would believe anyway…)

Jesus Christ has a saying that applies to this, I believe: “A teacher who is educated for the Kingdom of Heaven is like someone who brings out treasures old and new from his storage.” If you have learned something from God or from High Spirits in Heaven, and you know it comes from there because you have become a more virtuous and humble person yourself from it, then obviously you have something in your storehouse for the day someone needs your treasure.

Speaking of which, Amazon has moved The Way of Perfection (by St Teresa) up to second place in my Kindle recommendations list recently. I found this amusing because of the name. When I was young, I thought that I was pretty close to being perfect. But since then I have learned that I was actually very far from it, and still am far from it. God told me so!

I agree with marine officer Johan Oscar Smith, who wrote to his brother that  when he got the Holy Spirit, he expected to learn the hidden truth about the beasts in Daniel and the Apocalypse. But instead God showed him the beast in himself. Now that’s a truly useful vision! However, bear in mind that even God’s reproach is filled with hope. It has nothing to do with depression, and it won’t tell you that you are beyond salvation. Those who are can’t hear Him anyway. For it is written: “Today, if you hear His voice, harden not your hearts”.

The Fifth Dimension

The fifth-dimensional Realm of the Good

In the movie “The Laws of Eternity”, the fifth dimension is portrayed as a beautiful land, Earth-like but more beautiful and “larger than life”. The people there are constantly happy and get along well. But what is this “fifth dimension” really?

With our senses we live in a three-dimensional world, and with our mind we live in the fourth dimension as well, called time. To us, time is obviously real, but a number of scientists wonder whether it exists only in our mind, since their equations work just as well without it. Even so, the existence of time is obvious and to not believe in it requires a great effort. In fact, I do not think it is possible to live as a sane human being without belief in time.

But beyond this, there is a fifth dimension of the mind. In this we find such things as truth, beauty and virtue, and of course love. One name for this dimension is simply “spirituality”. It is our gateway to that which goes beyond space and time, to eternity itself. Truth is eternal, even though facts change. Beauty is eternal, even though beautiful things fade. Virtue is eternal, even though the virtuous die. Love is eternal, although the desire frequently called “love” certainly isn’t.

If you are blind to these things, I do not believe I have the power to change your mind. There are those who insist that there is nothing beyond this world of matter and energy, that all hope and love is merely delusion, that we are merely fluctuations in the activity of our brain. Their actions usually show that they don’t believe this for a minute, but presumably they have some reason for pretending even to themselves. I am not able to travel into your heart and find the knots that tie you down. Certainly I cannot do so in a simple blog like this.

But to seek the higher things for their own sake is like having an anchor that keeps you from drifting aimlessly down the river of time. Those who seek only the things in this world of space and time find life bitter and meaningless, for all things slip out of their grasp: Many while they still live, and the rest when they die.

In practice, most of us live unsteadily between Heaven and Earth, in a manner of speaking. We look up to truth, virtue and love. We are moved by music and art* that seem to take us beyond the moment and lift us up. But we are also drawn easily to sense pleasures, to status and even to anger. Even when we think we know better, we are easily led astray: Even a small coin at the end of an outreached arm is still large enough to block the entire sun.

(*I would not call music and art “spiritual” in the strict sense of that word, but rather I see them as on-ramps from the realm of the senses to a higher understanding of beauty as such. A person’s sense of music is often a good indication of the state of their soul.)

But they who have begun to colonize the fifth dimension, find that it is every bit as real as anything we can touch, and more so. Like the sky that is always above us no matter where we go, the spiritual reality is not dispelled by passing time, though many other things are.

As our eyes are opened, we learn to see: Not masterful things we can brag about, mostly, but how much love we have received, how precious it is that we have been given life and mind, how beautiful is the Light that shines through all things and that we can even, eventually, begin to see in each other. A sense of gratitude becomes frequent, maybe even steady. There is a great joy in the things that are not drifting on the river of time, and I wish that we all may be able to feel that joy in our lives.

Beyond what we may call the Fifth Dimension there are others, one brighter and more beautiful than another. But in a sense they are extensions of that fifth, not replacements for it. And I do not want to get very abstract today. If you are honest to yourself, I think you too believe in love, in truth, in beauty, in justice. You are not such a creature that has no use for things you can’t eat or mate with. You know this in your heart and you act on this truth at least part of the time, as do we all. Choose to pursue it and you pursue happiness itself. Come to the fifth dimension! We have cookies! ^_^

Preparing for “poverty”

Small house in Sims 3

With bedrooms and a second bathroom in the basement, this house in Sims 3 has room for a small family to live very comfortably. Having huge expanses of floor is not something most people will get used to in the near future, if things continue their current course. The bookshelves may also disappear, and the computer be replaced with tablets. Not sure about the mailbox.

For decades now, we who live in the rich world have assumed that we would become richer or richer. OK, perhaps not all of us, but nearly so. Americans have been more accepting of the fact that a society that creates winners must also create losers; here in Europe, we have largely pretended that this only applied to substance abusers. The ordinary Joe and Jane would be better and better off for each passing years, and their children even more so, world without end.

There was a vague sense of guilt because most of the world — the so-called “third world” — seemed lost forever in abject poverty. But that’s what happens when they try to rule themselves, and if it was our parents’ fault, it certainly wasn’t ours, and anyway they supplied us with cheap raw materials so it wasn’t all bad.

While we looked the other way, the developing world actually developed. OK, there are still some few nations mired in unspeakable poverty, usually in a state of war or civil war. But most of the human population isn’t living like that anymore. They still have a long way before they are as wealthy as us, but they are catching up rapidly.

Now the Chinese can do almost all that we can do, only cheaper. And people are understandably getting nervous, when their privileges start to come into question. It is not just theory, either: The income of a single working American is not much different from 20 years ago, and sliding downward. For a while the family wealth increased because both man and wife was working for pay; then it increased because you sold the same houses to each other for ever higher prices. Now that illusion too is broken; people hope that the government will be able to do something, perhaps by confiscating the wealth of the super-rich. But even if you took it all, you would only be able to hold the government debt steady for about a year. There just aren’t that many super-rich, and if you try to sell their stuff all at once you won’t get much for it.

The time may be drawing to a close when we could eat T-bone steak each day and the Chinese ate mostly rice. The steak and the rice are going to be more evenly distributed, so it seems. Not just with the Chinese, but India, Brazil, Indonesia and Nigeria are all huge nations who want their part of the world’s resources. At least the Indians don’t eat cattle… well, most of them don’t. But you get the point. Even though the rising tide raises most of the boats, some of the “super-rich” nations of the world will have to move downward toward the average.

It amuses me when Americans whine about the “1%” rich, and don’t realize that in the eyes of about 6 billion people, they are the 1%. OK, more like 5%, but still. The difference between having a private jet and a car may seem huge, but not when you’re saving up for a cheap bicycle.

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This was just an introduction, really, but probably necessary because most people in the western world have still not understood with their emotion that their Golden Age has ended, and that lean years are ahead.

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One trend in the near future of Europe and America should be small, cheap homes. Some of these will be in traditional apartments, but also suburban homes will probably be small, on small plots of land, in order to be affordable. I don’t mean we should tear down the large houses that are still around, I just mean that new homes should be smaller. Young people looking for a place to live will generally not be able to pay a lot, because even if they have a long-term job, it is not likely to be very well paid. There will be exceptions, of course, but their houses are already built, the big ones.

With gas prices set to skyrocket once another billion cars roll onto the roads, the suburbs of the near future should not be just rows of houses with roads to take people to the city. Rather, cities and towns and villages all should have a mixture of residential, shopping and work buildings. Since most work won’t involve smokestacks and the like, there is no reason to have the buildings far apart from the homes. You will not want to drive for an hour for a slightly better paid job, because it will cost you more in gas than you earn. But of course many jobs only exists where there are many people (a neurosurgeon needs a much larger population than a hairdresser). So large cities will continue to be large, but may become more dense and more varied as people seek to live within reasonable distance if they can afford it. Again, small affordable housing near the city or large towns will be highly sought after.

Electric cars will be widespread, but they will remain more expensive than gas or diesel cars, and electricity itself will grow more expensive. At the same time, wages and salaries will continue to shrink. Driving will no longer be something you do thoughtlessly or just because you are bored. And you will think twice about visiting a mall far away, or drive your kids to another town for some trivial activity.

Taking a plane to an overseas vacation will once again be for the rich. In so far as ordinary workers will have vacations, they will mostly spend them at home or at least in their own state, most years. Tourism will continue to grow for a while, because there will be many more tourists from the countries that used to be poor. But it will not grow at a breakneck speed, and not forever. Specifically, travel by plane will necessarily suffer from peak oil and the transportation boom. Planes are fast but not particularly energy-efficient. People will gradually need more and more of a real reason to take them.

With all things electronic continuing to give more value for money, I expect people to gradually switch from skin meetings to video meetings, and relaxing in virtual worlds instead of actual travel. Physical books will also probably become more of a luxury, although this is still a ways off.

The world population is now forecast to peak at somewhere around 9.5 billion, which is within the planet’s capacity to feed, at least for a while. What has changed the most is that most of these people won’t live in dirt poor third world countries, although I fear some will. But most will live in the new “second world”, not the communist world that use to bear that name but rather a compromise between todays first and third world. There are already a good number of such countries, and I expect the rich world to gradually sink to meet them, although not at the same speed as the emerging countries rise.

With a large “world middle class”, food will be expensive but most will be able to afford it. (Again, I expect hard times for the few countries who don’t get up in time.) Luxury food will become luxury again for the ordinary worker in America and Europe. In particular meat will be expensive, since it requires a lot of plant food that could otherwise have been sold to humans. Of course there are many areas that are better suited for grass than for grain, fruit and vegetables. In Scandinavia, for instance, the mountains are suited only for goats and sheep, not for grain or soybeans. I assume the same will hold true for the Rockies and other mountain chains. But overall, meat will become a bit of a luxury. Not something you only taste for Christmas, but perhaps once or twice a week unless you are well off and want to show it.

Again, we are not talking about abject poverty here. I put the word in quotes in the headline because in the eyes of most of the world, it is far from poverty. It is simply sensible living. But for many of us, that will be a rather new thing. We should think ahead and prepare, both individually, as families, and as society.

“Read more!”

Sims in front of a big classic bookshelf

I have to admit that a Kindle cannot compete with a classic bookshelf when it comes to impressing guests. Luckily that is not a concern for me.

“Read more!” I saw the text on a small plastic bag I had acquired some years ago from Narvesen, a kiosk chain here in Norway. I don’t know how this is in other countries, but in Norway kiosks usually sell snacks, newspapers, comics, magazines and hot dogs. In later years they usually also sell paperbacks, foreign magazines and pizza. Narvesen is the larges of the chains here, and has contributed quite a bit to the current bilingual state of our nation. A lot of literature is either unavailable in Norwegian or far more expensive, as our country has still less than 5 million citizens (about 4.5 million speaking Norwegian, I would guesstimate).

These days, the Narvesen kiosks may not be profiting the most if people took their old advice to heart. Norwegians have flocked to Amazon, buying first ordinary books but these days mainly e-books for Kindle. Most Norwegians have computer, smartphone, tablet or something in between. All of these have the ability to run the Kindle software. In addition, many Norwegians have bought a dedicated Kindle tablet.

In contrast, I am happy to say that Barnes & Noble’s Nook is virtually unknown here.  This is reasonable since they refuse to sell many of their books in our country. It also warms my heart because B&N is evil and should die, die, die and become like ash under the soles of the righteous. They sold me several e-books in the early years of that business, then after a while closed down their e-book business and deleted the books (which they had promised would be available for re-download). Meanwhile, during the dark years, Fictionwise.com was patient and was the major actor in selling recent fiction in e-book format. Just as the tide was turning, B&N bought them up and stopped them from selling many of their books overseas. Today, judging from the mails I get from them, they are mostly selling cheap romance books. May righteous judgment come upon B&N for their crimes against the innocent! May their shops become public toilets and all who pass them shake their heads and say “This was the high and mighty Barnes and Noble; may all who break their promises be destroyed like they were destroyed.”

OK, got a little carried away there.

In any case, it is a safe bet that if Norwegians take to heart the encouragement to read more, Amazon.com is likely to get at least as much profit from it as Narvesen. Even though there are cheaper competitors, like Smashwords, they tend to not have anywhere near the same number of different books. They also don’t have the synchronization across different devices. Still, I think competition on price is a good thing at this stage: In today’s mass market, it is no longer sane to have e-books cost more than paperbacks. So I will encourage you to search on Smashwords, or Google for other outlets, before pressing “Buy with 1-click”.

In any case, I plan to keep reading, if Light allows. I still have a backlog of books I have bought, most of them pretty heavy and dense – although no longer in a literal sense, I am happy to say, as far as the e-books are concerned!